About
Who We Help
We help growth-minded gay men build self-confidence and find a real relationship. Our clients are intelligent, self-aware professionals, who are tired of ghosting, unavailable men and dates that don't lead anywhere. They want something real.
They’ve done the work on themselves, but dating still feels frustrating. They sometimes wonder if love is still in the cards for them. Or if they're just too old at this point. Some clients have never had a real relationship. Others are navigating dating after divorce. Bottom line, dating sucks. That’s where we come in.
What We Do
We help gay men go from feeling frustrated with gay dating to finding a loving partner using a simple 3-step process, called The Boyfriend Formula™.
We teach The Boyfriend Formula through Private 1:1 Coaching, which combines personalized support and my proven framework. Our coaching style is grounded, validating, and impactful. We combine practical dating skills with healing principles. If dating feels like a nightmare, we can help.
Andrew's Story
In 2018, Andrew went through a tough breakup. His ex brought him out of the closet and was his first love, and he truly thought they would end up together. When the relationship ended, he was devastated and spiraled into anxiety and depression, turning to Grindr and hookups to numb the pain.
After learning healing modalities and working on his self-worth, Andrew began to outgrow hookup culture. Yet, dating remained a challenge as guys kept telling him, “I’m not ready for a relationship.”
That was when he committed to studying everything he could about dating and relationships. Over time, it finally clicked: two people starting as strangers and ending up in a committed relationship is actually a predictable process. That realization is how Andrew created The Boyfriend Formula™.
Meet the Team
Andrew Betancourt
Founder, The Boyfriend Formula™
Andrew is a Certified Relationship Coach and creator of The Boyfriend Formula™. Backed by 700+ coaching sessions and training in attachment theory, trauma-sensitivty, and male intimacy. He helps men move from dating app burnout and dead-end dates to a committed long-term relationship.
David Fisher, PCC
Boyfriend Formula™ Certified Coach
As a dating coach, David is trained in modern dating skills and relationship dynamics. He works with clients one-on-one, helping them build confidence find a grounded, lasting relationship. David is also an Associate Certified Coach and Certified Integrative NLP Practitioner with a background in career coaching.
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