About Me
Who I Help
I help growth-minded gay men build self-confidence and find find a real relationship. My clients are intelligent, self-aware professionals, who are tired of ghosting, unavailable men and dates that don't lead anywhere. They want something real.
They’ve done the work on themselves, but dating still feels frustrating. They sometimes wonder if love is still in the cards for them. Or if they're just too old at this point. Some clients have never had a real relationship. Others are naviagting dating after divorce. Bottom line, dating sucks.
That’s where I come in.
What I Do
I created The Boyfriend Formula™, a simple 3 step process, to help you go from feeling frustrated with gay dating, to finding a real relationship.
I do this through my program, The Boyfriend Formula™ 1:1 Coaching, which combines personalized support, proven tools, and a clear structure to help you find an emotionally available partner.
The Boyfriend Formula™ works in 3 distinct phases. Phase 1, dating mindset, is designed to help you feel confident and excited to meet quality men. It is also gives you tools to overcome common blocks, like the fear of rejcection or anxious attachment.
Phase 2, Modern Dating Skills, uses marketing principles to help you find, attract, and set dates with ideal partners. I teach both online dating (apps) and in person dating.
Phase 3, Building Connections, is where I will teach you how to filter out the bad apples. And how to progress the realtionship naturally.
The Boyfriend Formula™ will help you release old patterns, feel more confident, hopeful, and help you find a real relationship. My coaching style is gentle, validating, and deeply healing. I intergate practical dating strategies with healing principles. If you're ready for support, I'd love to meet you!
Andrew Betancourt
Certified Relationship Coach
My Story
Andrew Betancourt,
Certified Relationship Coach
In 2018, I went through a tough breakup. My ex brought me out of the closet and was my first love. I truly thought we would end up together.
When it ended, I was devastated and spiraled into anxiety and depression. To numb the pain, I turned to Grindr and hookups.
After training in trauma sensitivity and other healing modalities, I began to outgrow hookup culture, but dating was still difficult. I kept hearing the same line: “I’m not ready for a relationship.”
That is when I committed to studying everything I could about dating, relationships, and even the psychology behind attraction. I gave dating a full year of focused effort and finally I found the kind of real relationship I had always wanted.
Today I am a Certified Relationship Coach, specialized in gay dating and trauma sensitivity. I have led hundreds of coaching sessions nationwide. I now help other men find a real realtionship, using The Boyfriend Formula ™.
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