About Me

Who I Help

I help growth-minded gay men build self-confidence and find a real relationship. My clients are intelligent, self-aware professionals, who are tired of ghosting, unavailable men and dates that don't lead anywhere. They want something real.

They’ve done the work on themselves, but dating still feels frustrating. They sometimes wonder if love is still in the cards for them. Or if they're just too old at this point. Some clients have never had a real relationship. Others are navigating dating after divorce. Bottom line, dating sucks. That’s where I come in.

What I Do

I created The Boyfriend Formula™, a simple 3-step process to help you go from feeling frustrated with gay dating to finding a loving partner.

I teach The Boyfriend Formula through Private 1:1 Coaching, which combines personalized support and my proven framework. My coaching style is gentle, validating, and impactful. I combine practical dating skills with healing principles. If dating feels like a nightmare, I can help.

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Here's what I bring...

Coaching Certifications:

Relationship Coaching Certification, IAP Career College
Coaching Foundations Certification, The Coaching Masters

Dating & Relationships Training:

Finding the One, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
Dating, Love, Male Lovers, Dr. Ava Cadell
Attachment Theory 101, Julie Menanno, LMFT

Inclusion & Awareness Training:

Mindful and Multicultural Counseling, Dr. Nathalie Edmond
Trauma Informed Awareness for Healing Practitioners, Melissa Rebronja CHt

My Story

In 2018, I went through a tough breakup. My ex brought me out of the closet and was my first love. I truly thought we would end up together. When it ended, I was devastated and spiraled into anxiety and depression. To numb the pain, I turned to Grindr and hookups.

After learning healing modalities and working on my self-worth, I began to outgrow hookup culture. But dating was still difficult. Guys kept telling me, “I’m not ready for a relationship.”

That is when I committed to studying everything I could about dating and relationships. And overtime, dating finally clicked for me.

I realized that two people starting as strangers and ending up in a committed relationship is actually a predictable process. And, that’s how I created The Boyfriend Formula™.