About Me
Who I Help
I help growth-minded gay men build self-confidence and find find a real relationship.
My clients are intelligent, self-aware professionals in their 30s and 40s, who are tired of ghosting, unavailable men and dating that goes nowhere. They want something real and lasting.
They’ve done the work on themselves, but dating still feels frustrating, like no one truly sees them, or they’re somehow stuck. Some have never had a real relationship. Others are recovering from one. Most are wondering, “Why does this still feel so hard?”
That’s where I come in.
Through my signature coaching framework, I’ll help you shift the patterns that are keeping you stuck, show up with grounded confidence, and attract a relationship that actually fits the life and partnership you’re ready for.
What I Do
I help gay men create the kind of love life that feels aligned, grounded, and deeply fulfilling, without burning out from apps, settling, or giving up on what they really want.
I do this through my signature coaching program, Conscious Dating for Queer Men™, which combines personalized support, proven tools, and a clear structure to help you date with confidence and attract emotionally available partners.
The goal isn’t just to “get dates," it’s to help you build the kind of connection that feels good long-term. One where you’re respected, desired, and actually seen for who you are.
When my clients experience this transformation, they don’t just find love, they show up differently in the rest of their lives too. More confident. More self-assured. And more connected to the life they’ve been trying to build all along.
Andrew Betancourt,
Certified Relationship Coach
My Story
Andrew Betancourt,
Certified Relationship Coach
In 2018, I had a really tough break up. My ex brought me out of the closet and was my first love.
I honestly thought we were going to end up together. When it ended, I was devastated and spiraled into anxiety and depression.
To numb the pain, I turned to Grindr and hookups. It became such a habit that I forgot how to actually date.
Years later, I escaped the hook-up culture and realized there’s a science to dating.
Today, I’m a Certified Relationship Coach trained in dating and trauma sensitivity.
I’ve led 300+ coaching sessions and created The Dating Framework™ — a simple 3-step process for professional men who want to settle down.
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