The Boyfriend Formula™
Self paced course + group coaching to help you find a real relationship
Can’t seem to find the right guy? 😒
Finding love shouldn’t be this hard.
Inside you're thinking...
Everyone just wants hookups.
I’m tired of random 🍆 pics on Grindr. Not even a "hello"! I want something real.
The dating apps are trash.
Conversations go nowhere, and no one really excites me anymore.
No one wants anything serious.
Even after a few dates, it fizzles out. Or worse… I get ghosted.
Monogamy is dead.
It feels impossible to find a real, long-term partner.
I’m not getting any younger.
I thought I’d be in a relationship by now. I worry I'm too old.
Maybe I'm doing something wrong.
It never leads anywhere.
No, you're not asking for too much.
Gay men deserve love too.
Imagine this...
You're in a relationship with your best friend
You cook dinner together, you travel,and the sexual chemsitry is there.
You grow together
You're not perfect, but neither is he. You two push eachother to grow..
You feel supported and loved
He shows up, he communicates, and is in it for the long-term.
You feel safe and stable
You're in a committed monogamous relationship with somone who has similar values as you.
The real reason you're single is because...
the dating pool is too random.
The Boyfriend Formula™
is a simple 3 step process that solves this problem.
Phase 1
Supportive Mindset
First, I'll help you feel confident in yourself and the dating pool. You feel attractive and excited to meet people.
Phase 2
Modern Dating Skills
Second, I help you find, attract, and set dates with your ideal partner, online and in- person.
Phase 3
Building Connections
Third, I help you filter out the guys who are not a good fit and progess the relationship with guys that are. Avoid falling back in to old patterns.
You'll learn each phase inside The Boyfriend Formula™
Self paced course + group coaching to help you find a real relationship
Step by video modules to teach the concepts
Exercises to help you get immediate results
Framework and tools to use in real time
Monthly Group Coaching Calls
Online Community of like-minded gay men
BONUS: 9 Guest Experts Interview from therapists and coaches
Self-worth & emotions, Trauma & dating, Feeling Safe as a queer person
Somatic Tools for gay. men, Following Your Intuition
Navigating gay dating, how to create attraction
Healing through kink
Fitness & dating
BONUS: 5 Book Recommendations
Here's exactly what you'll learn...
Phase 1: Supportive Mindset
3 mindset blocks gay men face
Self-Inquiry
The Supportive Mindset
Affirmations
Emotional grounding
Phase 2: Modern Dating Skills
Attractor Factors
My ideal partner
"Andrew approved" dating apps
Gay dating/ hook up apps
Pick your pics - Hero shots
Bio Template
Profile Prompts to use
The chatting framework
Where to meet people in real life
How to get his number
Phase 3 Building Connections
3 types of dates
Creating attraction
Should I see him again
How often to text
How to filter
Compatibility
Relationship progression
Avoid falling back into patterns
Meet your course guide...
Andrew Betancourt
Certified Relationship Coach
Andrew has specialized in gay dating and trauma sensitivity since 2023. After his first relationship ended, he fell into hookup culture, and eventually realized there was a better way. He is the creator of The Boyfriend Formula™ and has led hundreds of coaching sessions nationwide.
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